Dear Friends and Family,
I'm writing with some sad news. I've been diagnosed with breast cancer in my right breast. We are still gathering information on the course of treatment but I will most likely have a double mastectomy sometime in early August. There is still quite a bit of information to gather: second opinions, more tests, whether I'll need chemo, etc.
As many of you know, my mom was diagnosed with DCIS (a non-invasive form of breast cancer) 10 years ago and she had a mastectomy. She is fine now. She recently tested positive for the breast cancer gene (BRCA2). This increased my chance of getting breast cancer significantly. As a result, I started aggressive early screening. (I plan on having the gene test done soon - more on this in a later post)
On June 27, I went in for a breast MRI (part of this early screening regimen). On June 29, I got a call from my doctor that there was a 2 cm mass in my right breast which was concerning. On July 2, I went in for a biopsy.
Today we met with the surgeon and confirmed the cancer diagnosis and the course of treatment as it stands right now. We then met with the plastic surgeon to discuss reconstructive surgery (I still plan on wearing a bikini!). Both surgeries will happen on the same day.
Once the surgery is over, we will have more information about whether chemotherapy is necessary. The recovery time from the surgery alone is estimated at 6 weeks.
This is all we know at this point. We plan to use this blog as a place to post updates to share with all of you. If you call or email, please understand it will take a while for us to respond. We do appreciate knowing we are in your thoughts and that you are sending love.
The good news is, we leave for Hawaii on Saturday, returning Monday 7/20, for a much needed vacation and time to process all of this information.
So how am I doing?
I am still in shock. At the moment I'm tackling this like another project at work. But I had a really productive sob session in the shower today which felt great. We are obviously overwhelmed by the impact this will have on our lives and trying to wrap our heads around all that lies ahead on this journey. We are lucky to have so much support and love, this is clearly something that takes a village.
We would appreciate if you would keep this news among the adults for now, as we want to unfold this information slowly to our girls.
Jen (and Jason - we are in this together)
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huge hugs from me. enjoy the time away and when you are back, please call if i can help in any way.
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sending my love and hugs!!! Thinking of you 24/7.
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Jen & Jason,
ReplyDeleteHawaii is just where you need to be now. Go, find some peace and take it all in. It is the medicine that doctors sometimes forget to prescribe.
"In what other land save this one is the commonest form of greeting not "Good day," nor "How d'ye do", but "Love"? That greeting is 'Aloha': love, I love you, my love to you... It is a positive affirmation of the warmth of one's own heart-giving."
- Jack London
Aloha!
--Judy
Jen and Jason,
ReplyDeleteYour village extends far and wide.
Sending our love,
Diana, Ric and Jenna
Jen and Jason,
ReplyDeleteWe so appreciate your willingness to share this with your community, and to open yourselves to all the love and healing energy you will receive. We know you will do this project as you do everything else....with mindfulness and grace. Our hearts are with you. Enjoy Hawaii...a perfect place to gather your inner resources. Much love, Jill and Tom
We are with you all the way, Brand family. All of our love, Matt, Sarah, Mollie and Lucy
ReplyDeleteJen and Jason,
ReplyDeleteOur hearts and thoughts remain with you on this journey...
Much love,
Lisa and Craig
Thank you for counting us in on your journey. That's what loved ones are for. We are ready and willing to help in any way we can....Love, Jen,Paul,Sophia and Nico
ReplyDeleteDear Jen and Jason,
ReplyDeleteWe hope that Hawaii will give you the peace
as you process this journey. Thank you for
sharing. Our thoughts and hearts are with you.
Love,
Marlene and Bob
Jen and Jason,
ReplyDeleteWe are sending lots of positive energy and good thoughts. Sending each of you a big hug.
Andrea & Jonny
Jen and Jason,
ReplyDeleteOur family has been down this road and can offer advice, a shoulder, and referrals. Keeping a positiove attitude and "I'm going ot be just fine" spirit will REALLY help. You are in our prayers.
Love, Kerry (Silverman) Fiero
Dear Jen and Jason,
ReplyDeleteLots more love & hugs from the east coast cousins. We have been thinking about you LOTS . . . and know that after this timely & much needed vacation, you will have buckets of support from so many friends & family as the two of you navigate through this maze . . . . a day at a time. With an incredible mentor (Tammy- mom) at your sides . . I bet you find you are stronger than you ever knew you were. All our love,
Deb & Ken
Thinking of you today...tons and tons. Just wanted to send you lots of hugs and kisses.
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Brynnie, Nathan, Mia & Sam
We know you'll be strong and have wonderful support from your wonderful family. We're going to be in Berkeley on Saturday (actually, just me and Iris, Karen arrives Sunday) and will be having a get together and my dad's place (1514 McGee Ave.) staring 5p. If y'all can make it, we'd love to see you. And if you do plan to come, please call me on cell 213-280-2263. We really would love to give y'all hugs!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Justin, Karen and Iris (plus baby brother -- yes Karen is due in mid October).
You are in our thoughts, we are happy that you have such a strong support system. It truly does take a village. Please count us in that village.
ReplyDeleteAll our love!
Carol,Jon Lizzy and Sam
I'm thinking of you, Jen. I hope you're finding Hawaii restorative! Looking forward to seeing you when you get back!
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